“Successful people maintain a positive focus in life no matter what is going on around them. They stay focused on their past successes rather than their past failures, and on the next action steps they need to take to get them closer to the fulfillment of their goals rather than all the other distractions that life presents to them.” -Jack Canfield

If you want something bad enough you’ll get it. You’ll accomplish it. 

You need focus. Focus on what you want to accomplish. Shut everything else out. Stop bad habits. Build great habits into your day. It’s, of course, easier said then done.

You will lose contact with some of your groups. Mostly social groups. You’ll probably lose contact with some people. That’s okay. 

You can go out with this group every now and then. It can’t be an every day or weekend thing. Unfortunately, social groups or outings, for the most part, do not help you accomplish your goals. If this group is going through the same process as you and dealing with the same struggles it will be very beneficial. Social outings can be a way to brainstorm strategies. Talk about what’s worked and what hasn’t. But mostly, they aren’t. 

You need to focus on the areas or activities in your life that are helping and hindering your goals. Eliminate the bad habits. Double down on the good.

For example, if you’re drinking, going out, and spending money/time not on your goals, you may want to evaluate that area of your life. Maybe limit these activities. Try to only do it once a month. 

On the other hand, you’re trying to learn a new language. You’re reading books and watching shows in that given language. You’re listening to music and studying flash cards. Instead of going out, spend more time learning. Double down. 

You’ll lose touch with some friends. You’ll possibly lose friends. That’s life. If they enjoy hanging out besides partying, they’ll stay in your life. 

Really make a conscious effort to focus on your goals. See if your life and goals overlap. They should. If not, evaluate areas where you need to change/improve to help accomplish goals. 

It really comes down to how badly do you want it. Focus on today. Keep in mind the future. 

Focus on what you can do now to help you accomplish your goals. Eliminate the unnecessary areas of your life.